Today the kids and I left the house for a play date at a playground. Do you know what happened? I told the kids we were going to leave the house soon. They got ready. We left.
That's it. End of story.
This may seem very unremarkable and it really is. That's actually my point. It doesn't feel like too long ago getting out of the house was a chore. I would often be exhausted before I even got to my destination. At first, excursions out took 30 minutes of packing a diaper bag with formula, bottled water, diapers, wipes, toys, a change of clothes, and more. Later, leaving the house had to be carefully timed around naps and feedings. As the kids got older we had to remember favorite stuffed animals, books, and snacks. Often getting out of the house meant tears because someone wanted to stay home and play with trains or watch a cartoon. And don't even get me started on tying shoes. Many parents know that when a child wants to tie their own shoes that can add a good 15 minutes to the leaving the home process!
I never thought these easy (well, easier) days would come. I remember touring several elementary schools when the kids were three years old and seeing third graders independently doing their school work. I literally could not imagine my kids at that age, but here they are. They make their own breakfasts and lunches several days a week, they play in their rooms independently, and they can often get themselves ready to leave the house (with a water bottle and a snack) in 10 minutes or less.
Years ago I remember telling my mom that I was not looking forward to the teenage years. My mom said she actually enjoyed those years with her kids because she got to speak to us on a new level. As my kids get older, the teen years seem less overwhelming. I do enjoy watching their independence grow, their sense of humor mature, and their brains tackle more complex issues.
Next up -- leaving the kids home alone. I know that level of independence is coming down the pipeline soon and then Derek and I can finally have a date night!!!
